
Throughout my 10 years as a Wedding Photographer I’ve learned a thing or two that I wish I would have known when I was planning my wedding. If you’d like to learn tips & tricks, see real weddings, and sessions then this blog is for you! I hope this can be a tool for all my couples and anyone searching for wedding inspiration.

This Lavender Manor wedding kicked off on July 25. If you know me, you know I was thrilled the second Sammie told me “we are so bad at taking photos.” That’s basically my favorite sentence to hear from a couple. It means I get to do what I love most: catch them being themselves instead of directing every second.
Sammie and Brandon met at a golf course. He was working the front desk; she was working the bar. It was the kind of low-key, everyday meeting that somehow turns into everything.


Ask Sammie what made her sure Brandon was the one, and she doesn’t hesitate: he brings a level of calm to her life. He’s selfless in a way that’s rare. Those aren’t flashy answers — they’re honest ones. Moreover, they’re the same qualities I got to watch in person all day.
Brandon proposed at home. Sammie came back from work to find flowers out, all her favorite snacks laid out, and Brandon and their dog waiting for her. There was no big production and no audience — just the three of them, in the place that’s actually theirs. It’s one of my favorite kinds of proposal stories. It says so much about who they are as a couple.
When I asked Sammie why they picked their venue, her answer was simple: “It was just so beautiful.” Honestly, that’s reason enough. A Lavender Manor wedding gives you that built-in romance — soft light, greenery, a setting that does half the work for you. Sammie and Brandon leaned into it, rather than fighting it.












Ask either of them what they were most looking forward to, and it’s not the ceremony logistics or the details — it’s dancing and having a genuinely fun night with the people they love. That’s exactly how the reception played out.



























































If you’re picturing your own Lavender Manor wedding, here’s the team that helped bring Sammie and Brandon’s day together:
If you’re planning your own wedding right now, Sammie’s advice is worth holding onto: enjoy the process. It might feel stressful in the moment, but it’s genuinely fun. It only happens once. I’d add one thing to that — if you’re camera-shy like Sammie and Brandon said they are, it doesn’t mean your photos won’t feel like you. Usually, it means they’ll feel more like you than anything posed ever could.
Congratulations, Sammie and Brandon. Thank you for letting me spend your wedding day with you.
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Throughout my 10 years as a Wedding Photographer I’ve learned a thing or two that I wish I would have known when I was planning my wedding. If you’d like to learn tips & tricks, see real weddings, and sessions then this blog is for you! I hope this can be a tool for all my couples and anyone searching for wedding inspiration.
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